Thursday, January 21, 2010

"In an Open Relationship"

Eh look, if you're in a relationship, you're in a relationship la. Whats all this about being in an open relationship?

At first I didnt even know what the term meant, until I googled it. My my..

For the definition, check out this link:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=open%20relationship

So my point is, if you want to be in an open relationship, why bother having a relationship in the first place. Just say "Oh, I have friends with benefits!"

I personally dont think there is anything worth salvaging in a relationship if you both can agree to date / sleep with everyone else. So does it mean you can have an open relationship with 18 people at once?

And apparently that term is official now huh? I mean, if FB has that option in the "relationship status" column, thats like biblical truth!

2 Comments:

Blogger dknypg83 said...

in your link to the urban dictionary, the second explanation did state this: 'Infact they will just love each other for who they are and support each other through times of need.' so isn't that something good in an open relationship which a normal relationship lacks?? because u'll tend to demand when u're in a normal relationship... whereas there's no such demand/jealousy in an open relationship... anyway, just my point of view although i personally prefer to stick to the conventional one... :)

9:26 AM

 
Blogger ----- said...

be it friends with benefit or even the not-so-polite term "fubu"... i personally think so long as it's a mutual and it doesn't harm anyone, there isn't much wrong in it... however that doesn't justify that an "open relationship" is right as well... but i just see it as a symbiosis thing... cos' sometimes the conventional love and sex can turn out to be the ugly "prey and predator" drama...

8:52 PM

 

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