Learn to T.R.U.S.T

I was so bloody pissed off yesterday. Well started yesterday night when i went clubbing and bar hopping in KL, i was more like effin pissed off this morning la. Wee hours of course. I think if someone trusts you enough, there wouldnt be any issues whatsoever.

Trust me enough that i can take care of myself. That i am matured enough to know the more important things in life while being able to have fun. Trust me to know tht i can make the right decisions in life. That i wont cheat on you. Isnt all relationships supposed to be based on that? How will it work otherwise?

How will i be able to trust you if you go off on a business trip to Phuket with a voluptious secretary when that main element is missing? Sheesh..

No wonder the world is such a mess. Like in those days where you could just go to the gorcery store and ask the pak kedai to ring up your charges in the 555 notebook. try it now!

Thinking of it, i actually did some proofreading for this girl who was doing her Masters in i-cant-remember-what field. and i didnt meet her face to face at all, she just sent me the whole 80 pages, i proofread and edited the whole thing, and was supposed to send it back to her after she deposited the money into my account. But it was a Friday and her supervisor wanted to look through it over the weekend and she said she didnt have the time to go to the bank and would i please just send her the edited version. And i did. And she banked in the exact proper amount the following Monday. And i didnt even KNOW WHO SHE WAS. see how miracles happen when we trust each other.

Of course some pessimistic / realistic argument would be when children start trusting molestors / rapists etc la. Sigh.. the world IS a mess isnt it.

P/s: Just got messier, lemme go sort that out first.

Pet Peeves!

First up will be the DAMN GLASS OF WATER. i mean, how bloody long does it take to get a glass of water? Its not like you have to go to the source on top of the mountain spring and climb down with vial by vial right. Its just iced water. For the love of god, just pour the water in the glass, add some ice cubes and bring it over! Sheesh..

And the other is baby diapers. Used ones i mean. Why in the world do i find them EVERYWHERE? Like at the car park of Kellie's Castle, near the tyre of Gorgeous. I mean, if you know how to have kids, then i think u should have the civic consciousness to bloody throw your kids used diapers in the right place. Not all over.

And you wouldnt BELIEVE where i found another - on one of the rocks on an island off Pangkor. It wasnt even on Pangkor, it was one of the smaller islands around where u go snorkel. If your kid is that tiny, why bring it along? And then if anything happens to the kid, you'd go to the papers and say tht the area is dangerous and have it shut down for the rest of mankind? ok la, i suppose thts worse case scenario, but still? Quit throwing used diapers all around and polluting every body else's sense of sight and smell.

Or if thats becoming slightly difficult, then think BEFORE you start having babies!

One guy's perspective

Ah-ha. So. Marks below are all out of 10.

Personality: 9
Looks (face): 9
Physique (neck down): 6.5 (must be that tummy & hips tht brought my ratings down :p)
Overall: 6.5 (tho i dont know how he arrived at this since it should be an average of all 3 which would make the overall score (9+9+6.5)/3 = 8.2. Tho he did say tht if i lost my hips, he's give me an 8. But i'm a narcissist. For what its worth, i think without my hips i would be a 9.5 :-)

Individually:

Lips : juicy
Eyes : mengancam
Nose : perfect :-)
Eyebrows : fabulous
Arms : looks like i work out (must be all tht swimming)
Hair : na-ah, didnt like the style
Ears : just nice
Legs : great, not too thin and not too big
Ankles : should be smaller (tho how then will they be able to support my frame :p)
Little toe : just nice (huh?)
Fingers : beautiful (tht i TOTALLY agree with)
Nails : nice
Neck : not nice
Ass : likes it
Hips : too big

Hmmmmmmmmm.. Well it was interesting to say the least ;-)

But i think the planets are not in alignment with the moon and stars today for all men. Well for some at least. I have issues with 2 men today. Altho the other 2 were behaving. And she had issues wih 2 men too. So yeah, must be a bad day for men. Especially when you call him to bitch abt the day and he gives you some crap.

Well, shit happens i guess, i WILL get on with life.

On pics in cars..

I mean there are so many people on friendster and facebook who put of profil pics of themselves being in cars. why? WHY? whats the big deal - is it like some new fad i'm not aware of where you HAVE to sit in the car and get your pic taken? sheesh..

i can totally understand if you wanna show off your car and you take a full shot of your car, either with u sitting inside or leaning against it or doing a handstand on the bonnet or something, but a close up shot of you IN the car where you cant see anything except your big nose and enlarged pores? and the infamous seatbelt.. AAARRRGGGHHHH.. come ON, for the love of god! spare us.

and the amount is getting larger day by day.. every other profile pic is someone in the car - driving la, looking at the camera la, smiling la.. ish.. facebook is not so bad, at least people put up travel pics and stuff - but on friendster? OMG.

well depressing stuff aside, my latest hobby is ellen degeneres' talk show at 2pm weekdays on 711. i never knew it was so cool - i think its better than oprah cos ellen's more lighthearted and funny. i prob never knew abt it cos i was too busy working.. hahahaha..

if only i could REALLY retire now. hmmm, working on it working on it :-)

My First Spa ;-)

Well first up, about my holiday to pangkor which was just ok. The hotel was quite a disappointment – well it wasn’t that bad but your expectations are hyped when u go for a famous name like swiss garden. And snorkelling among fish is not that great when you’ve actually swam among sharks! But ok la.. I mean, cant really complain much when ur on holiday and very many other pour souls are stuck in the office! Next stop: Tioman or Redang.

Went for my first spa the other day courtesy of American Express  Apparently as long as u have an amex card and ur one of the first 100 or something, you get a free spa from rustic nirwana along jalan imbi. So yours truly called and went la.

But doing this kinda stuff actually feels great, cos it feels like ur covering an article for a place or an eatery and they give u a free spa or a meal etc cos they want u to write good things abt their establishment.. Like how i got a free dinner at the Asian Rice Pot cos i was checking out their menu to plan for an event!

But back to my spa. So i went there on an afternoon, and was shown in and given green tea etc and someone explained all the different types of spa they had – like with crystals, rose quartzs, chopsticks, and the rest. So then one of the staff ran the bath for me beforehand, showed me my room, and left me alone after saying she would be coming bc in 20 mins.

So i got in and it was REALLY nice. Like someone was giving u a massage in water while getting all your pressure points right. Plus some. I remember Jennifer saying that a spa was better than sex and oh man, i now know precisely what she was talking about!

The Jacuzzi kinda bath was gushing out jets of water at EXACTLY the right spots. It was so easy to just lull yourself to sleep, but i didn’t cos i wanted to enjoy the whole experience. But in like 10 mins, it was getting a bit too much. Like the initial euphoria fades and it gets a lil tiring. I’ve actually heard tht a 20 min spa is almost equal to a 2-hr exercise run or something.. dunno la whether true or not.

So anyways, after 20 mins the staff comes in and says i had to get out (gladly ;-) and after i showered, i could still feel sweat coming out of my pores. For like the next half an hour! It was like a really good workout, my whole body was aching and my legs felt like jelly. I really think tht going for a spa once a week actually eliminated the need to exercise totally.

Oh, and i would definitely recommend couple spas *wink wink* 

Men. Again.

so who says men are not as sensitive as women? who says women are worse? and hands up those who would never put their hands up no matter what i ask. hahaha.. kidding.

but seriously, i didnt KNOW men can be so sensitive. apparently he told me tht i should be reassuring him and my answer would hv shown if i would stand up for him when he's being dissed. but of COURSE i would - i love you, you dumbell. and since when hv u EVER been so sensitive anyway, we rib each other ALL the time. man, if you were going to be like this at everything i say, would we EVER hv gotten to know each other so well?

ok it feels like i'm writing it in first person now. but good to get it off anyway.

yeah so. i hv always enjoyed your company. there are some people in life you keep in touch with for convenience. then there are others you keep in touch with cos you like them and their company. cos they make you feel comfortable, make you laugh, are there when you cry and accept you for who you are. someone you look forward to seeing for a drink or a mamak session after work. who act as your chauffer, your date, your movie partner, that all in one kinda person you feel like there's never enough time to spend with. ok, maybe i'm elevating you a little. :p maybe.

so how can you say that i wouldnt stand up for you over some silly little thing. but i kind of figured it would boil down to 3 things. and i was right. but alls ok now :-) i'm glad everything is sorted but if you ever jeopardise this friendship over some silly little comment again, you're on your own. ok maybe not, some people are just worth it. :-) you're lucky u know that? good karma as you say. oh and i was vegetarian in your honour for dinner on Saturday. tho i dont know why - remember the lamb and the lasagne? sheesh..

well, if you hadnt replied, i probably would hv called you and told you tht there are some people in life tht u just dont give up on ;-) some who are THAT worth it :-) and i would hv bugged you till kingdom come. appreciate the fact tht u told me the whole story and that u became normal again. now we can get on with life. i love you too. very much. there are some people in the world i would do a LOT for, and if you fall into that category - boy, you hv good karma all right :-) miss you.

Tres, i'm not pissed anymore :-) everything's bc to normal. I'm ADORED *big smile* Called me on Sat afternoon and again on Sat night and sent me a msg as well :-)